I used to have no problem getting a boyfriend in high school. & now I've been out of high school for almost a year (in my first year of college) & I've been single for like two years now. I feel like its so hard to meet a guy now a days. I'm not the type of girl to go up to a guy, for some reason I get pretty shy when it comes to talking to guys at first. But if you really knew me, my personality is anything but shy. I've tried the whole online dating thing but all I ever see are creeps on there which makes me not wanna meet anyone in person & put in the effort so I just end up deleting my profile. I've been working on my confidence issues & they have gotten a lot better, I do believe that I'm pretty. Not conceided just confident :) & majority of the guys that I still talk to from high school just want sex & seriously its SO unattractive. Sadly I will admit that I'm shallow. Its just so hard for me to give a guy a chance & then when I see a cute guy I feel like they won't even give me the time of day. I'm shallow because past relationships have made me this way, my standards have just gotten higher. But I would much rather date a guy who is cute & has avoid personality then date a really hott guy who is a jerk. I just need help.
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Try going to public places and don't have headphones in your ears. Try going to one place few time because there are some guys:me for example only after seeing a girl few times they start to develope somekinda interest in her. When looking at someone make a friendly look like you're trying to invite him1