So my ex and I broke up because I found that he'd been cheating online with many many girls not just one or 2 I'm talking 10+... on 2 separate web sites. He talks to them like girlfriends, and most of them he's never met. Most of the conversations revolve around sex ect.
Here's the question, I am still friends with him (crazy I know) but it is because he is an amazing supportive friend now, to be honest my feelings for him have faded into a friendship which is weird.
Anyway the whole situation is still a little uncomfortable because I know he is still doing it, even though we broke up over it, plus he never tries to initiate sex with me now even though we're close (and didn't much when we were together) yet talks about sex to all these girls...so he obviously loves it...
i don't get if we get along so well, and he's still affectionate and caring/texts every day, why he has to talk to all these other girls all the bloody time?!
When I stay at his we share a bed, and he will only ever cuddle me to sleep and nothing else, we dated for 9 months prior to all this.
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It sounds to me like the guy likes the world of cyber relationships. He can feel fulfilled having multiple flirtations with less effort than a real relationship.
Frankly it sounds like the guy has some emotional and relationship issues. He clearly has a problem verging on intimacy issue if he preferes online relationships to actual ones. he sounds a like a prime example of a person addicted to the internet and allowing it to negative shape his world view