Our last texting is all about my confession of love to him
saying nobody could replace him ever
and our last meeting
I gave him a handmade gift and smiled all the time without crying and begging
when I left he texted me that he wants me to move on and don't waste time on him anymore
it should be over to both of us
he believes I will live better without him and he said it can't go back
(I ignored his text and keep NC)
honestly I still feel sparks between us..
but I could be wrong
it has been NC for half month already
Should I NC forever until he hi me... Or initiate contact with him after a while? (if so, about how long for NC?)
FYI, the breaking up is mostly my fault
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If both of you hurt each other too much, and if he doesn't consider it too bad to say that he hates you, then it is better off to not be with him. If you haven't fixed what went wrong the first time around, or changed the way you behave to make the first break-up, then getting back together will only lead to another break-up.
If you thought you broke up and he didn't think it was a break-up, then he probably thought you cheated on him. And why would you see someone else just after a break-up? You have to be able to commit.
If the breaking-up is mostly your fault, then he probably doesn't want to get back together with you because he doesn't want to get hurt.0
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