Have you ever had a guy or a girl hound you, follow you, and pressure you for a date or to date them after you had already told them NO?
How often does it happen to you?
How did you handle it?
In public I often have guys hound me if I tell them I'm not interested and get accused of being a lesbian, who hates men. I usually just ignore it and make sure to stay away from those guys in case they assault me.
I had a really scary situation in college. I rejected a guy I had befriended. He started blowing up my phone and Facebook asking Why I won't give him a chance. I told him that we weren't compatible and explained why (our beliefs were completely different). He STILL didn't accept my No and told me I was being closed minded and that I SHOULD CHANGE ME BELIEFS so that we could date. I told him he was creeping me out and blocked him on everything. He starts FOLLOWING ME, finally he confronts men about Why I called him creepy and Why I said that about him and why I've been avoiding him. I told Him that stalking me, and not accepting my boundaries and threatening my safety made him a creep. I told Him I'd have to protect myself if he didn't leave me alone and reached into my pocket. I never saw him again after that, THANK GOD!
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I did the stereotypical ghetto hoodrat move and cussed him out and insulted him really bad. I mean the things I said to him were cringe worthy mean
It sure got him to leave me the hell alone tho. I kinda feel bad about it but then again not really because he shouldn't have been so hardheaded. No means no, next time stop harassing me and don't take my kindness for weakness1