I love my best friend who is a guy. But he keeps saying he can't date a friend just Because I know him inside out. I know everything about him including the women he causally dates.
Is it a guys thing that they don't want to date a girl who knows them too well? Or is there something lacking in me? He says I'm a good package for any guy but thinks he can't do me justice.
What should I do?
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This guy clearly doesn't want a serious relationship with ANYONE, and he knows with all of your history that that's where you would expect your relationship to go. He's simply not ready for that. In today's world, college-age guys are rarely ready for anything serious; most are in Party Mode at that age. But even besides that, some guys just don't want serious relationships. That's why he has casual relationships with other girls.
I strongly advise you NOT to wait for him. Meet other guys and live your life, and 10 years down the road, IF you are both single and he feels ready, then you can give it a try then. If not, then you didn't waste a decade of your life hoping he'd change his mind.0