So keep in mind this was a girl I'd met online and had never spoken to in person before today. We'd traded texts for about 2 weeks (over 200) before we could finally meet up yesterday. We ended up going to a pub, sharing a couple drinks, and chatting for over an hour and a half before I had to bolt for a concert. No kiss, there was a lot of leg lean-age at the corner booth we were at and the occasional brushing hands, but didn't quite feel comfortable enough to go for a kiss to end the date.
Solid enough of a first date to build off of you think? She's already mentioned wanting to see me again when I'm available so I'm pretty sure I'm good for a second date... but I also haven't been on a date in 3 years now til today (broke up with a long-term girlfriend last August)
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you did good and were a perfect gentleman about the whole date. I think its a very good sign if she mentioned she'd like to see you again. plus its also good sign if you think about kissing her. don't let your gut feeling go with how you feel. too many people let their fears hold them back. I hope you two get a chance to meet up again and that things will work out.0