I'm seventeen, old I know. I've had boyfriends before, but the one I had the longest moved to Hawaii, then we started dating while he was away. My boyfriend didn't even know I was a virgin, let alone never been kissed. I don't know if I can tell him, but I don't want to make a fool of myself, any tips? This is weird, but can you practice kissing?
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Don't worry, it's not uncommon to wait for your first kiss. It can actually be a really good thing! I was 18, in a similar situation...met a great guy, he was 20 and had just gotten out of a serious relationship...I'd never so much as held hands with a guy before. I didn't tell him that till much later, after we'd been together several months, but turns out he'd figured. So you may not even have to tell your guy! I'm really glad I had my first kiss with mine, and when I eventually let him know that, it made him happy too.
As far as practicing kissing, no, unfortunately there's no practice that compares to the real thing. Don't worry though, when the time is right he will almost certainly take the lead! Guys usually initiate the first kiss, and after that you'll have a better idea of what you're doing. Once you've shared a few little pecks with him, you can suck gently on his bottom lip, then switch to the top...trust me, after you've done this a few times, your body will let you know what to do next. One more thing: when you're kissing him, remember to use your hands to touch him too. You can start out with the most innocent things (cradle the back of his head/neck, wrap your arms around his back, etc) then move on from there. With a little practice it really will come naturally, I promise! (:0