What are some tell-tale signs that he doesn't want to date other women? I want to bring it up, but I don't want it to be too soon and scare him away.
We've been on 6 dates now and so far everything is going well. We've fooled around, and I've slept over at his place, but we haven't had sex yet and insists that, despite wanting to sleep with me, we should hold off. He picks me up and drives me home, walks me to my doorstep and has cooked me dinner. When I've slept over, he's asked me out for breakfast.
He seems like a really genuine guy, but I'm not sure if he's being a gentleman, or if he's hesitating for some other reason, like he's not sure whether or not he's ready to take that step because he's not sure how he feels about me, maybe (re: sex)? Should I be worried? Should I just be more patient and give him more time? Or is it safe to assume that he likes me enough that "the talk" wouldn't scare him away?
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It sounds like he is a real gentleman, but to know if it's because he wants to be exclusive to you you need to talk to him about it. There's no other way to find out, and it's best not to assume. If you feel awkward being direct about the conversation you can probe around with questions. He obviously has respect for you, wanting to hold off on sex...so if he continues to treat you this good, and it's going at a good pace, I would think he's cool with being exclusive.0