Well I just asked a similar question yesterday, and I'm just looking for a few more opinions since my last poll split 50/50 haha.
So I met this girl only 5 days ago. In that time, we've texted on two different days. Not long conversations at all... maybe a total of 20 messages. Now I'd like to ask her out on a date for this Friday or Saturday. Either to the local science museum or a comedy club. Should I text her to ask, or should I call? We're in college, so I don't know her schedule at all...
There are pros and cons of each. Call shows more confidence, that I'm serious about it, and it's different than most guys. But I might call when she's busy or she might not be comfortable with a phone call from someone she doesn't know well yet. Texting would be easier for both sides, she could respond whenever she has time, and it would be casual. But at the same time, I'd be like most other guys and she might be looking for something different.
Any opinions? Thanks! Go ahead and answer the poll and/or post a comment :)
- Call for sure67% (2)50% (2)57% (4)Vote
- Texting is the best33% (1)50% (2)43% (3)Vote
- Either is good (try not to choose this one if you do lean either way at all :P )0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote