So long story short. I met this girl I'm really into back in November, we went out 3 times. Each time we had instant chemistry, had a blast, made out each time but that's it. She came across as flaky and would say she loves being around me, spending time with me, etc, then vanish for 2 days. I got pissed and broke it off dated a new girl until last month, but now back with this girl again for another try as I really like her. Again we been out 3 or 4 times, she's been at my place twice and we make out , have a great time, but when I get her to my bed nothing else happens. I don't understand what's going on here. Today we went out during the day, great time, and after I drop her off she texts me " I really enjoy spending time with you". then no text for rest of night? I have no clue here. Any opinions?... this is driving me crazy!
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You're expecting things to progress too fast. You went on 3 dates then want her to be in contact with you nearly every day? After jumping ship, then coming back and dating 3-4 more times you're expecting to get her into bed, and keep texting you into the night?
It's clearly not her style to launch into a relationship at the pace you want her to. if you want it to work, chill out and focus on the journey not the destination :-)0