I have been on this dating site for a while and have emailed at least 60 women. I finally have received an email back, but after I responded I haven't heard anything back and it has been several days. I'm sure she has seen the message because the website shows me that she is online for chat, however, I don't overstep that boundary of being the 'weird' guy sensing multiple messages of chat requests. I just don't understand why I have such a hard time trying to get a woman to talk to me. I am on dating sites because I don't approach women in public and haven't ever; I'm very intimidated by women and extremely shy. This has been an on going battle trying to get responses from women online, and nothing I do (updating profiles, adding pics) seems to help. Last time I spoke to a women was almost a year ago and she talked to me...Didn't last very long at all. Why don't I get responses from women? I spend the time to write a good profile and put photos up; they aren't shirtless ones, or photos with me and other women, I try to smile in them. I just don't get it. Need help!
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Why is there no response?
Most likely because you're messaging gals that aren't attracted to you.
Why don't I get responses from women?
In my opinion it depends on your height and what gals you're messaging:
- are they younger than you..if so you have competition from multiple age ranges
- are they more attractive than you...if so you they may not see a reason to go for 'lower'
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