Do you just take the next one who shows some interest in you or do you wait until you are over the previous relationship?
What makes you want to date straight away after a break up?
The girl is spinning from the break up when the guy has been losing interest for a bit of time before that. Initial No contact and get a new girl..thoughts please
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It depends on a lot of different factors: whether you've moved on already or still absorbed in the old love story, whether you think that new person is suitable for you or not, etc...
I think people should consider getting into the dating scene again if these points are satisfied:
1) You are over your previous lover: Sometimes people get into a new relationship just for rebound. They don't necessarily like the new boyfriend/girlfriend but they think it's a great way to forget their ex. I think it's a huge mistake though because it will make you feel empty inside and depressed after a while. Also, you're playing with the new guy/girl feelings which is not OK. So, I think it's important to heal first before getting into a new relationship.
2) Take some quality time for YOU: I think after leaving someone you've loved isn't easy. You need some quality time with yourself in order to figure out what you want from life, what you learned from your past experiences, what you want and what you don't want in a future lover, etc...I think jumping from one relationship to another doesn't give you time to reflect which I think is very important. Why not enjoy life on your own for a while? Why not indulge yourself and make yourself happy until you find a great girl/guy for yourself? I think anyone should.
3) That new person is suitable for you: I think some people (including some of my friends) think that by breaking up and getting older that they won't find a great girl/guy and that they should settle for less or for the first decent person who knocks your door. Many decent people out there, but a only a few are compatible. So, I think anyone should wait for that person who will make them happy and not just go around and date multiple people and break their hearts.
Hope this helps. :)1