Maybe they can't get a job, maybe they Haven't ever dated and feel bad about it. Maybe they don't have a clue of what they should be doing with their lives. Whatever the reason would you date them and continue to date them if they're situation didn't change for the them? Would you keep the relationship going and try to help them? Or would you leave earl would their age or your age effect your decision?
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I never dated until the relationship I entered about a month ago. Call me a loser or whatever, but I was always too busy until lately.
That being said I lost my job a couple of months ago. I had moved across the country for a high paying job and everything was looking up. I felt good about myself -like everything that was supposed to happen was about to and I was just a late bloomer.
I was going to pay off my student loans, buy a new wardrobe, finally start trying to get a girl! I started hitting night clubs on the weekends and the first two times I did I even got to dance pretty intimately with some ladies and my self-esteem began to skyrocket because there was a girl at work who looked like she might be interested in me.
It looked like smooth sailing: above average paycheck in the gaming industry with a position that had lots of potential for mobility. I even found myself window shopping for a crazy turquoise colored blazer to wear to the company Xmas party.
My dreams were finally coming true! I was practically crying of happiness and relief inside.
Then the worst thing happened. My company decided to lay-off my entire section and forbade us from going to the Xmas party for obvious reasons.
I was given a severance package and told that I should be fine; engineers are in high demand here!
Only...with all the lay-offs occurring cause of this damned social gaming bubble, it has become extremely hard to find people willing to hire guys who have less than 3 years of experience in the industry. I'm like a recent grad essentially -only I never got to get in with a recent grad job and now I am two years too late.
Even so, I started online dating for the hell of it. I guess it's hard to get women to reply when you are 5'9", are unemployed, and don't fill out the field that asks if you are into recreational drugs.
So for me, HELL YES I will date someone who is less experienced with dating. Only fools or people who cannot relate to being too busy to date would say they would filter out people based on experience.
And if it's about dating a girl who is unemployed I would have no problem with it. Because I, too, am suffering from the effects of this damned economy.
I might not have a job right now, but if it's anything like the last, well. Let's just say I now see why it is silly to filter out dates based on income.1