this girl I met about a year ago has me very confused. I have tried to make plans to spend time with her several times. It seems like something always comes up. We live 2 hours apart. She works shifts and weekends. It is hard to make plans because she doesn't always have the same weekends off as I do. WE have gone out twice. She sent me a text 2 weeks ago telling me she was off for the weekend and that she wanted to see me when I was in town if I wasn't too busy. I had made plans to go to dinner with some friends and they called to invite her. She sent me a message saying that she couldn't meet me until later because she was babysitting. Why would she make plans to baby sit if she wanted to spend time together? I asked her if I could come over and keep her company . I told her that I didn't mind if she was babysitting, I just wanted to see her and hang out for a while. She asked if we could make it another night. She told me that she does want to get to know me and spend time together but I have to wander. I mean what do you think, should I believe her or should I just move on? Am I wasting my time and making a fool of myself in the process if I give her the benefit of the doubt?
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You can work at fixing this, but you'll still be dealing with a long-distance relationship. LDR's can be emotionally trying, often unsatisfying, and they rarely last. Frankly, if you're going to fall in love and make a fool of yourself, which you should plan on doing anyway, you may as well find yourself a local honey. Love is tough enough to nurture even with the benefit of with eye contact.0