My boyfriend is being so busy lately, he worked at a 5 star hotel and now is tourist season in our place, the city is flooded with tourist. So basically I know how tiring his work can be. He had been working more than a week without a single day off for now. My problem is that he used to text me in a sweet way before, and more concerned about me. But lately he hadn't been texting me as frequently as before. But when I texted him, he will always replied back with pet names (usually if I use it) but there's not much enthusiasm in his replies as before. He used to text me even before sleeping and telling me how he wants me near. But now nothing like that at all. One time I got upset so I decided not to text him 1st and wait and on the 3rd day he texted me saying that I forgot him. our text started to become more tense and we quarreled a bit but then we agreed to compromise and I started texting him like normally. But again, his answer is as not as enthusiastic as usual. I'm not sure what to think, he's not asking to meet me too (we live far from each other, if we plan to meet each other after his work is too tiring, even on normal days it will take 1-2 hours journey to meet each other). But even that before he used to call me to see each other on webcam on Facebook, but now he didn't asked for it at all, he kept saying he will just sleep right after he reach home (he could be telling the truth, there's no activities on his Facebook at all since he became this cold) I noticed that if I keep the text cold, his reply is cold, if I started to be more sweet in text sometimes he will reply in same way and sometimes he will be cold. What am I supposed to do? Is he losing interest in me or he's just burned out?
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It seems that his working life is taking a toll at him.
Let him be and just compromise.1