This fabulous guy came into my life we got on great a def soul mate he felt it too,.On the 3rd date we slept together but then things went quiet.. hardly any text. I sent him a text a week later saying are you OK I said have you just come out of a relationship or something ? he said "yes I just feel its too soon" so I gave him no grief I just said "No problem hun we have all been there I understand." and the day after he sent me a text saying "Good morning babe, " and we picked up again... for a bout a week he came round said he was in need of a hug, he took me for afternoon lunch a great afternoon and no sex! " 2 days later he took me out and we had a great day, this time AFTER Sex NOT before HE asked could we be an item? I said "well yes if that's what you want" and he vanished again for a whole week so then I emailed him and said, "Hi Mr elusive ,with a smiley kept it light so has not to let him feel hounded, I said "Im not surprised you vanished asking me for a relationship that quick you surprised me, I was quite happy to keep it light and dating for now seeing has you have recently had a break up...I don't mind the dating thing and if anything else follows then its a bonus ..Anyway just incase we run into one another again no hard feelings take care ! He did write back the same day saying exactly this "Hi Lynn I really do have good intentions its like my heads all messed up and I just can't seem to move on ..you take care to! xx That was 2 days ago what does anyone think will I see him again with what we just wrote to each other how does it appear to you? I really liked him incidently we are both in our 40's
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I hate to say it but maybe he just needed you as a rebound to get over his previous relationship. this would also explain his behavior of trying to rush into becoming an item, to try and take his mind off his ex.
I would give it a few days before messaging him again, if you find you are always the one initiating contact then he might have lost interest/still needs more time to get over things.0