Who has it way worse and why would you say so?
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I think ugly women. ugly men are generally told if they get enough confidence, enough status, enough money, be funny enough, what have you, they can redeem themselves and makeup for lack of good looks.
Ugly women are just ugly. Women are generally criticized for their looks far more than men are. Women have been traditionally valued for their looks for a very long time in history. Today is no different.
I can relate. No one I know thinks I'm ugly, people tell me they think I'm very pretty, beautiful, really cute, etc., I don't even think I'm ugly, but I am fat which is pretty much the same for a woman in this society. So I know what ugly girls feel like. We're in the same boat sometimes. I don't have men tripping over their feet to get to me either, hardly anyone asks me out, I'm always single. However, I've seen girls who aren't very pretty (nothing wrong with that) BUT who have hot bodies. Being "eh" or a bit/moderately ugly doesn't seem to matter for even the very shallow guys if you have the body to make up for it. I have known a few women like that.
However, I'm not trying to dismiss whatever insecurities and dating struggles that "ugly guys" have. I'm sure we all feel like our own little corner of the world is particularly sh*tty at one point or another.1