Hey guys I'm new here so cut me some slack haha. Anyway I've been with my girlfriend for just shy of 3 years and we've had our back and forths as any couple does. Recently it's come to my attention that she has been stalking through my messages on Facebook and for the past couple months she's been making a list and tallyof anyone who I talk to or who likes any pictures or status's she, just in the last two weeks messaged and text a handful of these people, of both genders, never to talk to me again. All of this behind my back, I found out from a friend who asked me what that was all about. I've never cheated on her, I've never come close to cheating on her. This is only a step further of the amount of crazy she has been exhibiting recently. Other things like reading my texts when I leave the room, contacting my brothers to find out what I'm doing even so much as accusing me of not being at work and making me send her a picture of my work. It's never been like this before and nothing on my end has changed. I obviously love her otherwise that crap would have been dealt with in a drastic manner immediately. I don't know what to do. I don't have a clue where this is coming from. There's a part of me that wants to just take a break but I know it'll tear her up. I'm just looking for advice. On a side note we exchanged passwords and usernames and I have not once ever gone through her emails or Facebook messages. So no I wouldn't do that to her. I feel disrespected and am honestly having a really hard time forgiving her.
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Don't just stay with her because you know it'll hurt her, her behavior hurts you too. Ask her why she's been acting like that, tell her you don't like it and ask her why she's asking these people never to talk to you again, doesn't she want you to have friends and a life outside the relationship?
She crossed the line, she invaded your privacy and meddled in things she shouldn't have. I would confront her with her behavior and expect a really good reason for her to do this. Ask her why she feels the need to do this, because you feel like she doesn't trust you anymore.
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