I've been placed on the "I need space" thing for over 3 months now during a very serious relationship. For months I went to see her every weekend because I was invited. All of a sudden she wanted space, which I didn't understand because I wasn't the one who asked if I could drive 2 hours one way to see her. I've been invited to see her only once in over 3 months, yet she calls me twice a day. About a month ago, I had plans to go out with some friends, she became a bit jealous, and told me to be a good boy. She goes out all the time and had gone to another guy's place for dinner. Was I concerned? Yes. Did it bother her that I was? No. Is it time that I consider dating other women? I have 5 gals who want to go out. If I did, would that be considered cheating?
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I would talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. If you don't like her response then tell her you are going to date other women. She can't keep you hanging while she's out doing whatever she wants. It sounds like she cares about you as a person, but she's keeping you on the back burner just in case she doesn't find someone else. It sucks yes I know.1