There is a guy I met recently who I have only treated like a friend. I was not flirtatious with him. However, he has expressed to me several times that he like me..a lot. He is very flirtatious. I have told him numerous times I am in a committed relationship and although I see he has good qualities nothing will come of it. However, he still doesn't quit. He answers with I will have to fail entirely at getting you before I stop, or I will just keep bothering you until you give in and date me..I honestly don't know what to do, because I have fallen for him to an extent, but I feel like he is a player, and I feel like it is just an infatuation. I am currently dating someone that I'm honestly in love with so I don't understand this situation I'm in..or why I'm in it and I kind of just feel awful about entirely. I don't know what to do..someone tell me.
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"or I will just keep bothering you until you give in and date me..."...WTF?
Listen, you are only "in this situation" if you choose to be. You maybe giving him mixed signals & that's why he is "bothering" you.
Ask yourself these questions:
-what signals am I giving him to continue?
-why haven't I just told him to stop or we will not remain friends?
-why does he have so little respect for me to continue this? After all, he is completely disregarding
your wishes & just doing what he wants. Oh! He'd make a great boyfriend, right?