Sorry for it being so long :(
Unbeknownst to me, my new boyfriend who had just graduated from airborne school had booked a flight to Hawaii. Without a word, he just up & left me confused & worried for almost 2 days. His phone was off so I couldn't get in touch with him. On the night of day 2, he called & told me why he went M.I.A (missing in action). He said his mother had called & told him his son had a fever. But he never said why his phone was off & I didn't ask. Plus, I was busy typing my research paper so I had to talk to him once I finished. He said, "ok, I'll be up & waiting" so when I called back, it went straight to vm & he never replied to my text message. 2 days past, & his phone is still off & I haven't heard from him.
On the 5th day, he sends a text message telling me he thinks about me, he loves me, he's still with his son until he gets better, he'll be back soon, & he'll call me tomorrow. Well, 3 days have past, he never called. Plus, his phone is still off so he is unreachable as usual. Why is his phone off? He is in one of the U.S. territories so he shouldn't get charged international fees. Plus, I'm not the only one who calls or text him.
F.Y.I, I know not to expect him to call or text me all the time but we were actually suppose to spend some time together after he graduated. & I understand his son is sick & he needs his space but I feel a little neglected over here. Am I being selfish? Should I just keep my distance? Because I haven't tried to call or text him since he last contacted me.
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Your not being selfish hun, in my opinion he should at least spend one minute of his time to call you and explain why he is being like this, instead of leaving you confused, worried and restless all day. Yes his son is ill, but spending 60 seconds on you isn't too much to ask. There's 432000 seconds in 5 days, he has no valid reason to not use 60 of those on you.
If I were you, I would just keep my distance for now and try to not worry about it. You aren't being selfish at all and hopefully once all this crap with his son is over he will hurry the hell up and call you.