So before judging just think that we are have or will go trough this at one point in our lives
A guy I met online 3 years ago on a dating site , him and I began dating but sadly he had to move because he decided to join the army. This didn't stop us from talking and we did and maybe 2 times we met and went on date. I fell in love with him and considered him as my best friend.
Than slowly over time the love faded and we got busy and he didn't talk to me as often, and I got sad and mad, cause we were planning to meet and he didn't show up and broke my heart, therfore I got mad and said a lot of mean things to him, so he deleted me on Facebook but after one month added me again, but we didn't talk, until he one day contacted me and wanted to meet, and we did and had sex for the first time, he than went back to the army and was busy again and we didn't talk, and I was still mad and upset, than he contacted me once the bombing happened here in our country asking if I was OK, and from that day we talked very often, and this time he had moved back home.
Things went great from about one and a half, and he moved back to my town and we dated and were very happy, than one night at his place, things went great , he asked me to stay the night but I went home, and since than he stopped talking to me, than 4 weeks ish later he was in a relationship with a girl from back home, they broke up one month after.
NOW 6 months later he begins liking my fcb pictures and randomly contacted me saying how he really wants me as his friend, how things went suddently wrong and we lost contact, and he asked if I was dating others , and he is dating a girl now but he said their good friends at the moment,
here the other day I re opened my old dating profile, than went on yesterday and there he was on that site again looking for love..
SO I know it sounds like he is a douche bag , and yes he can be but there were more happyness than sadness, he really is a loving guy and his basically a great friend of mine,
I don't want to date him again but I do want to be friends like before, so should I say happy birthday to him to show him I'm not bitter and mad?
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This is high school drama.
If he liked you like you like him, he would be with you. He clearly doesn't and is just looking for a girl to bed down with. You were that girl one night. The time you left, you weren't and he got mad and went looking for someone else.
Wish him Happy Birthday if you like, but find another man to make happy.0