I met this guy on a dating site (I made initial contact) went on three dates with a guy and on the third it got hot and heavy but I didn't sleep with him because I wanted to know his intentions were true. The only thing is I met his mate first before I knew him and slept with him on the 2nd date, but that was all he was after. Guy 2 said he couldn't see me after date 2 because of this but then changed his mind. He's now said after date three he doesn't think we should see each other but can't give me a valid explanation why. Is it because of this?
Also, I miss him so much. Should I text him in a few days and tell him I miss him? Or try something a little lighter.
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Try something a bit lighter.
He's probably kind of turned off that you slept with his friend on the second date, but not him. It doesn't mean that's what he is like too, but he probably feels sort of short changed. He could also be thinking it's kind of weird to be dating someone a friend of his has slept with.
He doesn't really have to give you a valid explanation if he doesn't want to see you. I'd say try again in a few days with "Want to go out again sometime?" or something to that effect. If he doesn't want to, then cut ties and move on, because that's what he wants.0
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