Ive been seeing this guy and well I said goodnight to him one night and the next thing I know I'm getting a text from another number that I don't know. They sound just like him when he's texting me. I proceed to get on whitepages and look up the phone number it comes up twice in the guy I'm seeing name. The nest day I call him out on it and he denies it and I'm not fully satisfied so I sit on it for the day the next day I tell him I found and I proceed to accuse him again and he tells me he didn't do it, he gets really upset with me and won't talk about it with me. Later that night I check whitepages again and its a completely different name I feel like a complete jerk, we have only been seeing each other for 9 months this is the first big fight we have had, I like him a lot and I think he's the one I just hope he can forgive me. I told him I was the one to blame and that I owe him a big apology but even that wasn't enough! Please help!
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You made one of the most common mistakes for a girl to make - you started hurling accusations at the guy, and it turns out you were wrong.
Lots of girls do this. A lot of those, never admit they were wrong. They invent additions to the story to "prove" they were in the right all along... It's sad, really.
You've apologized and told him you were wrong. That's all you can do for now. He needs space to let the rage subside, and re-evaluate where you both stand. Because in his mind, there was a certain element of trust which he assumed existed in your relationship, and as it turns out he was wrong about that. He needs time to process this information.7
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