Technically you're doing nothing wrong if you date multiple people at once, provided none are exclusive relationships, and you're not sleeping with more than one of them-- but would you feel uncomfortable doing so?
woul;d you feel uncomfortable dating someone you really like who is also casually dating others?
Re: Would you feel special.
I'm asking you how _you_ would feel.
i would not care because if I'm going to be with someone, it should be because we want to be with each other, not because there's no choice.
that saud I doubt id feel like dating more than one person at a time. it is time consuming and the relationship loses a special quality of truly getting to know each other, imo. but hecan do as he likes--if its not gonna happen its not gonna happen. between us.
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I agree, there is nothing wrong with dating multiple people and I pretty much agree with the standards you have listed above. I would simply like to add that, all of the men you are dating, have a right to know that they are not the only guy you are dating.
So in principle, I think it's perfectly fine. However, I just have an extremely monogamous personality, I thrive commited to one person. I had every intention of 'dating around' a couple summers ago, the first guy I went on a date with, I told I did not want anything exclusive, that I wanted to date around. It didn't deter him and he pursued me.
Guess what happened? I never went on another date with any other men after that, and 10 months later we were engaged. :) So my monogamous personality would not let me thrive dating multiple people, even though it's fine, it would have me seriously doubting my self worth, I would feel 'dirty'.2
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