Is it okay if my boyfriend calls me sexy?

So I've been dating this guy for a month now. He says he likes me a lot. He calls me beautiful a lot, and he is very attracted to me. today he text me that I was sexy.. It was about wearing summer dresses. And he said I was sexy and would look awesome in a dress. any never had sex. We only made out a few times. I don't know much about dating. Is he only after sex or is it okay to call a girl you like sexy?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's just a compliment...it doesn't mean you have to have sex with him. He simply thinks you look good. It's not like he was asking you to get into bed with him. Try not to read so much into everything. You should be flattered that he finds you sexy. All guys should think their girlfriend is sexy. It's just a compliment.

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What Guys Said 6

  • Lol just because he calls you sexy doesn't mean he only wants sex. Not saying that he isn't only after sex, but you can't tell just by that.

    Sexy is different from beautiful and gorgeous. Not in a bad way though, just a different kind of compliment.

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  • It's a compliment not a statement of intention. Do people really get hung up on these things? Is this real life?

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  • huh? I thought girls like compliments!

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  • I personally think he likes you a lot and is just giving you a compliment .

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  • Hes complimenting your appreance. Its a good thing.

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  • It's really okay. He's complimenting you.

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What Girls Said 2

  • It's definitely OK for him to call you sexy. He just likes how you look! He's not asking you to have sex whatsoever, just complimenting you. Don't think so much and just be happy he's attracted to you :)

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  • I think it's okay, but I do understand where you are coming from. When I was in junior high, a woman teaching my girl's group told us to re-evaluate ourselves if a guy ever told us we were sexy, because it meant we were causing them to sin (basically, in our community, "you look sexy" was interpreted as "you look slutty" and was a bad thing). But I don't really agree with that anymore, especially once we're adults. If a random person were to tell me I was sexy, that would be creepy, but if it was my girlfriend (same as you, dating for a month), I wouldn't mind that. It would be nice, actually. And someone telling a 13-year-old that she was sexy would be a bit bad in my opinion, but between an adult boyfriend and an adult girlfriend, I think that would be okay. Are you wanting to avoid sex? I mean either for a period of time, or until you're sure you're in love, or until you're married, because the answer kind of depends on that, too.

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