The girl who told you that, still rejected you? What I don't get is why would a girl/women say that to a guy just to turn him down? To me those are the most hateful women I know their right up there with Feminist, and gold diggers. I've been told I'm cute, good looking and my favorite because I laugh Handsome all not true. Do they really believe/think I'm really that stupid to believe it? Why can't women/girls just be honest with me and tell me what they really think of me?
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It sounds like they friend zoned you because you weren't attractive to them, and then they try to boost your ego/confidence to go find a girl (just not them). Girls tell their girlfriend that they are cute, pretty, etc. and that men are just intimidated by them all the time... I guess you're getting treated like one of the girls with sympathy compliments.
I don't have that happen to me. From my experience, when girls actually find you attractive they don't tell you until way down the road. They don't seem to like to admit it directly in words. They'll subtly hint at it though and compliment your eyes, your voice, your smile, how strong you are, how tall you are, etc.
You might want to stop trying to be their friends to get close to them. Just make your moves quicker. You'll still likely get rejected by a number of girls, but at least you won't invest time in girls that aren't interested in you and won't get hit with a snow job.3
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