So, long story short, I've been with my boyfriend for six months now and we have yet to kiss on the lips. I am highly attracted to him but something just makes me push him away every time he has tried to kiss me. I don't know why. It's probably because I'm really shy about physical intimacy with a guy and I've never been kissed, and plus I'm scared of embarrassing myself in front of him. It's a lot of things, really. Any advice would be really helpful, this is starting to stress me out...
I still haven't kissed my boyfriend
What Guys Said 5
There is nothing wrong with taking it slow. Its cool you waited 6 months. If he was the kind of guy you didn't want to kiss, then he wouldn't be your boyfriend by now. There is no need to run off and do all three bases now, you can kiss him and keep taking your time.
These things considered, is there anything else remaining holding you back?
If no, then just kiss him already!
Just try the same way as Julita. Just told Your Boyfriend that this is Your first time. Then he will know that he must be delicate. I think he will make him best to not fail You. Really... Just tell him true. Let him be a gentleman! Good luck!
Ahhh... And You should be sure that You want to try it. Please, don't do it if You feel that is not place or time for 1st kiss. ;)1
You shouldn't be embarrassed or feel insecure about yourself. Just kiss him.1
'. I am highly attracted to him but something just makes me push him away every time he has tried to kiss me.'
I bet that's really frustrating for him. you really need to just let him do it, otherwise he's gonna think you just don't like him that much and he may lose interest.
What Girls Said 1
I was so scared about my first kiss. I told him, this is my first kiss, I have no idea how to do it and you have to help me. So he did it so gently and nice that I still remember it with a smile.
You just have to kiss him, not gonna be together for long without touching each other. It is great fun, trust me, just be honest with him and let him lead. Good luck!
Oh the first kisses brings back the memories, ha ha :D :D1
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