Here's the situation (my main goal being I don't want to seem like an a**hole so help me out girls). There's a girl who I know is very OBVIOUS that she likes me: she's constantly touching me and leaning on me and staring at me. Anyhow, she's a junior and I'm a senior but she seems just a tad too...immature for my comfort level. Don't get me wrong, this has nothing to do with her looks, she's VERY pretty but that has never meant much to me in the long run and she's actually starting to get kind of annoying. I'm not dating anyone presently and she has been STRONGLY hinting that I should take her to prom but everything about her character has been repelling me more and more for the past month. I'm sure she's used to guys doing whatever she wants, she's a cheerleader heh. But ultimately I'm not that kind of guy.
Will it be fine to just ignore her flirting for the rest of the year or do I have to frankly tell her I'm not interested? I just don't want to seem like an ass :(.
Thanks girls and guys of girlsaskguys.
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It's damn decent of you to consider her feelings, dude. It speaks very well of you- I just wanted to point that out. Okay, so... there is no way to tell her (or anyone) that you have no intention of picking up what she's putting down without making her feel like an a**hole, even if you handle her gently. She's going to feel butt-hurt about it.. maybe even more butt-hurt than normal because you say she's used to guys falling all over themselves to do stuff for her. And now here you are, and she wants you... and you don't want her. Shit's gonna blow her MIND, and my money is on her having a great big bitchfit about it. That being said... it's still legit to tell her to get off of you because you have a right to be who you are and do what you want. She may need to learn what rejection feels like. It's not awesome, but it won't kill her either.
OR you could just play Captain Oblivious and pretend you don't notice what she's doing. Eventually you will graduate and she won't be your problem anymore. You can go either way...0