I gave birth to my daughter in November, and the dad was not involved in any way.. He was very violent towards me and was definitely bad company. He knew my due date, but he moved away when I was 13 weeks pregnant and I decided to cut all contact because he was bad for me and my daughter.. anyway, he tried to contact me and he wrote, texted and emailed me. I was 41 weeks when I gave birth and I decided not to write to him. It was as if he thought I had "lost it" ( the baby) because he wrote " oh I'm so sorry for your loss, dumb cow!" ( yeah, nice guy) and so I figured, why text him? I told the hospital that he was the father and then a paternitytest was on the way. He called me 45 times the day he got the letter that I had stated him as the father, especially because the letter told him that he already owe me money.. of course he denied it so now we have to get bloodtests and all that.. but of course I know it's him.. so the questions is, why does he keep "changing his mind" ? he wrote this :" I hate you, I know you've slept with all my friends you whore, I hate her as well, little rat, she should have died inside you, now my life is ruined.. I HATE YOU" ( so as you see, good fatherfigure) now yesterday he wrote this: " this is torture, is it just about the money? what can I do?" as if he had changed is mind and wanted to be a part of it? he left a message on my cell saying " hey I just want to know if I can see her? I don't want to fight or go to court, so if you say no I'll have to accept" and afterward write " you WHORE, I hate you dirty whore omg iøve kissed your lips I feel so dirty now I have to pay for this sh*t for 18 years" um.. so what is wrong with this guy? :S
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Who the f*** cares. Get a lawyer. Take him to court for support and then for harassment. Keep a record of EVERYTHING.
And learn how to choose better men.1