And if he doesn't than its a deal breaker for girls.
Agree or disagree?
- Agree it should always be the guys decision10% (1)22% (2)16% (3)Vote
- Don't agree, sometimes girls should decide too90% (9)67% (6)79% (15)Vote
- It depends (please explain)0% (0)11% (1)5% (1)Vote
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Go out and observe guys who regularly get girls, and you'll find that not only do they plan the date, but they don't even really ASK the girl as much as they TELL the girl that they're going to take them on the date. You'd think that would turn girls off, but for most girls, running into a guy with that much confidence is unique and a turn-on.
The observe the guys who rarely if ever get girls. They always ASK the girl if she'll go on a date, and often leaves the date-planning up to her, or at most, suggests a couple of things and asks her to decide.
What does this teach us? Simple: most women want a CONFIDENT, dominant man who takes charge and LEADS. That's what an Alpha Male does, and that's why most women go gaga for them. Despite all of the women's lib that you've been taught all your life, women are still biologically programmed to respond to Alpha Males, and unlike their education or their careers, when it comes to their love-life, they follow their emotions (i.e., biology) rather than their brain.
Are there exceptions? Of course, but they are statistically rare, and many of them will be academics and militant radical feminists, meaning way out of the mainstream.
As one of the girls here mentioned, the girl will eventually feel comfortable and secure in the relationship, and her social and organizational instincts will eventually kick in and she'll want to plan at least some of your outings, and that's fine, but at least in the beginning, the guy should be making nearly ALL of the decisions, and should have planned what he wants to do before he even approaches her, unless he's VERY good at thinking on his feet.1