I have known this particular girl for 3 years. We were just friends but we went to different colleges and then about 3 months ago she called me and said she was moving to my hometown to take some classes at my college. I was exited, I've always liked her, we have a lot in common were outgoing, can have fun anywhere, both have younger sister, and we even have the same breed of dog. I took her to a drive in movie theater (yes we still have some of those in rural Texas) and towards the end we started kissing and feeling each other a little but we stopped before it got too serious. I wanted to take it kinda slow, I told her about the past 3 relationships I had, the girls I was dating used me to cheat on their boyfriends. So leading up to this on the first 2 dates I told her about my past relationships and also that I'm joining the military in less that a year. After the 3rd date she started making all those typical excuses "shes busy" and things like that and I have not seen or heard from her since then despite an effort on my part to set up another date. Am I damaged goods? Did she not want to get involved with someone who is going to be serving overseas soon? Looking for a womans input.
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Do you know about her past? Has she been hurt before? If so, you telling her that you are going overseas might be why she is backing off - if she's been hurt before then she KNOWS you will eventually hurt her so she is keeping her guard up and not getting to close to you hence making excuses that she is 'busy.'
I once had a male friend that I liked...I had been very hurt in the past so when my male friend told me that he liked me and that he would be moving away to LA in the future...I started to back off...it wasen't that I wasen't interested...I just wanted to avoid getting hurt in the future because it sucks MAJORLY.
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