Theres this guy who seems to really like me I've not known him that long so I'm still getting to know him so I can't say I like him a lot yet. He seems nice but he has a child with an ex girlfriend. This fact kind of turned me off because I love kids but I've never dated a guy with kids,had opportunities too but chose not too. don't wanna deal with "baby mama drama" I've never wanted to be a stepmom. The whole thing makes me uneasy But he says his child wouldn't be a big issue if we dated.but he cannot leave the state (he doesn't live in my state) but he says we could figure out how to fix being together and too look on the bright side.I don't drive and don't have anyone to go with me to see him if the time came as of now.
And I surely don't wanna move.
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Then why get involved in this scene? of course there are all these complications with kids, including the sacrificing of mobility due, I guess, to divorce and custody issues.
And who knows what else awaits if you start dating him!
There's nothing wrong with deciding that at this stage in your life, you don't want these restrictions and complications. But make your decision up front, and quickly!0