I've been talking to this guy that I went out with. He had to leave for work so we're keeping in touch through texting/messaging. He texted first the last ten times we talked and I've texted him the last two times. He always carries on conversation with questions and long answers. He's shy and not a very good texter. Does it matter if I text him first or he texts me first so long as we both carry on the conversation? I have a feeling he's waiting for me to text first again, should I since he's shy? Would it be rude to end the next conversation with something like "I've got to go, but you should text me sometime. :)" do you think he'll get the hint that I want him to text me first?
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You know what? It doesn't really matter.
I sometimes want to text this girl that I like and haven't heard from in a while and think..."What the heck!" and send her a text. I receive a reply several minutes later. But when you text...say something witty...not just "Hi." Ask him a question or send him a little joke...that's what I do with a girl I like. :-)
The only time you don't want to text a guy is if you already sent him like 5-10 texts and he still hasn't replied! Haha. Then you'll seem a bit OCD.
Another good idea...send him a pic :-)0