Would a guy say that he wasn't planning on seeing anyone else but and would of course see you (loosly exclusive - not confirmed) if he didn't mean it?
I've been on a couple of dates with this guy and we've slept together but after he said he wasn't planning on seeing anyone else he went back on the dating website we met on, and he hasn't really been texting much saying he's busy. I get the feeling he either isn't looking for a relationship at all or maybe I've scared him off but if he is and we like each other what's the problem? Any ideas?
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Guys would definitely say that without meaning it. I can't say if he's lying or not, but going on a dating website is a red flag. You should ask him why he feels the need to use a dating website when he claims to want only u.
When he answers, use the following test to see if he's lying (this works for most thingswithinj relationships)
1- Every1 has an internal B.S. detector. If you think he's BS-ing, he probably is
2-If he passes the BS detector test, give your BFF a sit-rep (make sure she knows all the details) and ask her if she thinks he's BS-ing.
I really don't see a reason why a dude would use a site like that unless he wants to get laid. Men who are looking for a LTR/ wife generally don't use those sites. This is why 95% of the girls profiles say "If you wanna get laid, look somewhere else", and 95% of the dudes on those sites just wanna get laid.0