When dating what are some signs that things aren't going to work out or that you are with someone that could end up being abusive.
Most Helpful Girl
Based on what I read in another comment, from someone who studies this...run.
Here are a few red flags:
-He calls girls 'bitches' or stereotypically refers to them negatively as a whole.
-He assumes expects you to be 'different'.
-He gets attached quickly. (Which means he's emotionally impulsive.)
-He gets irrationally jealous or possessive.
-He doesn't make you feel respected.
-He wants in your pants too quickly.
-He slut shames women.
-He controls your actions and whereabouts and doesn't trust you. ("Those shorts are too short. You can't wear them. I don't want other guys looking at you." Etc)
-He basically treats you like an object or slave. You're 'his' and he'll do as he pleases. ("You're MY girlfriend. We're having sex. It's part of your JOB."
This list goes on. Basically...it leads to much worse. :-/ It's not so bad now...but...it grows the more he thinks you 'belong' to him. (It's one thing to equally belong to one another, and an entire other to think of them having specific obligations to you.)8