I've been dating this great guy for about 6 months. Now that the semester is over we're separated and doing long distance until he comes up here for the rest of the summer. Keep in mind, that I may be transferring to a school 5 hours away from him.
He and I were great friends before we admitted our feelings for each other. I was his first everything. Kiss, girlfriend, etc. lol. I strive to be a great girlfriend, And he knows and acknowledges this. However, lately he's been being mean to me like laughing when I'm upset. He's also been being inconsiderate and pretty much did a 180 on the awesome guy he used to be. Its honestly breaking my heart. He keeps trying to blame it on the distance and he doesn't know how to deal with his feelings but the distance never changed me. We both have cars and made plans to visit each other come fall.We were best friends before dating and all throughout it but lately I feel like there's hardly any friendship. Any advice?
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He's hurting too. Sometimes us guys don't even take note of why, and don't know anything other than that we're feeling bad.
Now you are feeling hurt. I forsee apologies and forgiveness going both ways if this relationship is going to last.
Time to put on your detective cap.