I read somewhere that psycho boy/girlfriends tend to be people who have had awful family lives or really bad emotional baggage. I don't really agree, but what is everyone else's opinion on dating someone with emotional baggage?
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I agree and never again! Weirdly enough, the few girls I've dated recently have some pretty intense baggage or crappy family lives. I can't seem to get away from these folks...YEESH.
Those girls are really messed up. I try to sympathize/help them (since I grew up without a father in my life) but there comes a point(s) where you get dragged into their problems. The problem is that they can never let go of the past (whether its abuse from family, ex's) so it's like..deep psychological scars and it manifests in many weird ways. The really manipulative shrews will use it against you to guilt trip or manipulate you. If you encounter those...you run for the hills and don't look back!
Kudos to the ones that realize the issues and worked hard to get over it! You deserve a medal because I know it's not tough and it'll impact every relationship negatively if handled the wrong way. It's essentially a vicious circle...
Why can't I find a normal girl? Seriously, I'll settle for a daddy's girl (if that is any better...) lolol!1