I am a 26 year old female and I recently lost 40 lbs. Since then, I have gotten more attention from guys who are better looking and more successful, but jerks. I have been single for three years except for short relationships along the way. Most turn out to be a couple of months long flings and generally guys looking for a casual fling. How do I get out of this and find decent guys? I am beginning to worry since Iam now 26 and still single :/
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First off, congratulations on your weight loss! Congratulations on your success, you should be proud of your accomplishment!
Now you get to encounter superficial men! What, no one told you?!
This sounds nerdy, but on a Saturday or Sunday morning, sit down and make a list of what is important to you in a guy.
- "Special" package?
Once you have your list, brainstorm where to meet these guys.
- Kindness? Volunteer at a soup kitchen.
- Education? Go to a university library.
- Looks? Hell, you're the girl!
- Package? Be in the last row of the yoga class, and don't always look at the instructor.
(You get the idea)
Oh, I don't intent to be mean, but seriously, if you are 26 (young) and you are getting attention from better looking, more successful guys for flings (your words - don't hate) is that bad? Seriously?
With all due respect, I remain,