Hi guys, my boyfriend and I together more then a year he is loving caring and good to me, but his job is photographer, I don't mind that, but sometimes he has to take nude pics of other girls its really let me so sick, I tried talk to him about it, but he say its job and he can't choose. He is on web site something like a FB where all his clients there ( mostly girls) he don't have any of my picture or where we together picture there, recently one of nude girl up date her nude photo the one he take of her, I feel so sick! I don't know what should I do ! Or maybe it's I wrong and being to conservative !
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This is his job, and part of who he is. He isn't going to change this for you, so, you need to decide for yourself if this is something you can handle or not, and if not, you need to break up with him.
If he was an actor, he might be kissing girls and even having fake sex with them. If he was a painter, he might be painting nude models, etc. Women always love these creative types of people (understandably), but this stuff is often part of the package, and it isn't reasonable to expect him to change.
If I dated Taylor Swift, I'd have to know going in that she might write songs about our relationship. That's who she is and what she does. She's not going to change that for me or anyone else, and your guy isn't going to change what he does or who he is for you or anyone else. You either have to accept him how he is, or move on and find a guy who is more of what you want.1