So I've met this girl online a few weeks ago and it finally moved to text messaging on our phones a few days later after the initial contact. We even managed to set up a date to meet which was yesterday.
Well it didn't happen because her friend got into a car accident. Now she is busy for another 2 weeks. I find that hard to believe for someone who only works 2 nights a week and doesn't go to school.
To be fair the first two weeks she was helping a friend set up her wedding so I thought that was legitimate but that only spanned the first week we met into the weekend.
So I just openly told her that I'm still up for meeting but I'm going to go back and actively seek a girl. A month is too much time for me to sit back and twiddle my thumbs to meet one person I met online.
So my question is do you think she just isn't that interested in meeting? Maybe even a little intimidated? She had an legitimate excuse to cancel in my opinion but I feel like an after thought concerning whether she wants to meet or not.
As for me am I being unreasonable for telling her I'm going to check out other girls?
We do seem to have a lot in common and we connected well in our conversations. However, even with all that I don't think she is worth the wait. Would you wait?
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i do internet dating...anyone want to meet..only req. 15 minute to see if you like that person...
one time I was chatting up with a guy, his picture looks good...converstion okay...i was bored and said lets meet up, we live 15min. away...so we meet..i chatted with him in starbucks..i got to know him a bit...then I left...i wasn't' attracted to him.
i am in my 30s...i don't like games...meet or not...i don't waste like to waste time.
so to answer your question, she is playing games.