Guys why do you date a girl once and then never talk to her again. Even if your not interested could you at least be polite and let her know instead of leaving her hanging on with false hope that maybe your just playing it cool etc.
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Guys don't like confrontation...and I don't like it either for that matter.Its easier to just ignore someone and leave them hanging and let them "figure it out for themselves" rather than explain why you are not interested.BUT...girls will be girls.Some girls won't hear anything back for 2 weeks and she will STILL think,"Oh,he is just busy...I will just text him...for the 25th time.He hasn't responded yet...but I will text him again."
I went out with a guy ONCE.It was fun,he was nice to talk to,but overly agressive as in WAY to many texts,being "sure" of me way too quickly without even knowing me,and overall going at a much quicker pace than me. I wasn't interested in him for a TON of reasons.I wanted to be "nice" and tell him nicely that I wasn't interested because he was still texting me after not hearing from me for weeks.He wanted to know why I wasn't into him,and I told him.What did I do THAT for.He became defensive and obviously upset and made it seem like he wasn't that interested anyway.I felt horrible about telling him,but I also didn't want him hanging on for hope.So...being "nice" backfired.It often does in the scenario of dating. Guys don't want to have to deal with a girl trying to convince him she is right for him,or a girl turning into a psycho,OR worse...a girl crying because you tell her you aren't into it.
So ignoring her seems to be the widely received action.Its the "get a clue","take a hint" action.Sadly some girls don't get it.This isn't a perfect world.Everyone is not going to tell each other they aren't interested etc.So...that's why its important to...take a hint.2