We knew each other for about two years. We talked occasionally, that was it, but I always liked him, and one of his friends told me he liked me too. A year ago we made out. Then we haven't spoken for a while. A month ago I texted him happy birthday and he said thanks and he invited me over. But I knew he didn't do it for sex, he is shy. So I went there and we had a great time and talked about a lot of things. A week after that he asked me out again and it was great. And now, on Friday I texted him if he wants to hang out this weekend, and he said yes and that he'll call me tomorrow. Two days gone and he didn't call or text. What is going on? I really really like him, but don't wanna be pushy and text him all the time.. What should I do?
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The best thing is to do nothing. For one reason or another, you have not made it to the top of his agenda and any prodding you do will only push him away. He might not be into you (any more) but there could be other reasons for his silence. Most probably, though, he is just not as into you as you are into him.
This way, when and if he comes back and talks to you, you have the satisfaction of not having appeared desperate. Guys do not appreciate desperation any more than girls.
If you MUST do something, just send him a non-committal, charming little text like "I was just thinking about the conversation we had about XYZ last time we were together. It was inspiring to me :-)" or something like that. No pressure, no agenda, no nothing just showing him you are on his mind.
So, move on and date somebody else. If and when he comes back, he may or may not be too late.