I have been "dating" this man for almost a year now. At first, he would call me every day and sometimes a couple of times a day. We talked about everything. We talked about personal stuff to each other and it felt so right. Then intimacy was thrown into the picture. Now, he calls once a week (or to be more accurate, every 4 to 5 days) and talks for a few minutes. Used to, when he would end a conversation, he would say I will call you tomorrow and he normally did unless he was busy. Then it got to the point that he would say I will call you in a day or two and now he says I will call you later. To be honest, it is getting on my nerves. I do not know if we have a relationship or if I am a booty call. Do not know how to approach him with this if I even need to at all. I do not know if I am overreacting or what?
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How long since his calls became less frequent? Maybe he's just stuck in a busy time in his life right now. If you've been dating him for almost a year now and you're still unclear about whether you're together exclusively or not exclusively, it would be reasonable to ask him bluntly where you think your relationships is heading. It's just plain good to see where you two are, if you're on the same page, relationship-wise. That's the only sure way to know.0