My ex girlfriend rebound some guy after dating me for one year.
While dating him, we promised that we would remain friends...Well her new boyfriend didn't really agree to that so assuming that this was all his idea that she never really gave me the time of day for about 6-7 months of them dating.
How I felt about this? Devastated, especially since I still had feelings for her.
Well here it comes, 4 months ago they broke up and guess who came crawling back to me.
I accepted her companionship back with open arms.
However...2 months later she went back to him and continued the same charade. Fine, fool me once shame on you fool me twice...etc.
They just broke up a month ago AGAIN and now she made up her mind to never go back to him. Well that's too late because for about 5 weeks now I've been giving her BS excuses on why I am unavailable to hang out. She's trying to get a hold of me via texting, Skype, Facebook, phone calls, and even home phone calls. (No, I don't consider her the crazy type)
I know she's very hurt from what I'm doing.
Any reassuring or disagreeing comments?
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Don't cut contact with her because you want to hurt her, do it for yourself. Continuing a friendship with her doesn't sound like it's very good for your emotional health, and you're not giving yourself a chance to really get over her and move on with your life.
If it were me, I'd probably give her an explanation. Something like, "I was open to remaining friends with you, but the way you've been handling our friendship has been selfish and hurtful to me. You ignore me when you have a boyfriend, and then expect my friendship when it suits you. It's unfair to me, and so for that reason, I no longer want to remain friends." After that, I'd cut contact and move on with my life.0