I have 3 questions about a possible first date. This was set up by my cousin, so I've never met the girl. I texted her a bit last night just saying hi and what's up. First question, when I ask her out should I call or should I text her a bit more and ask her out through texts? Second question, I just realized I am busy the next few days, so my options are to either ask her out for tonight, or Sunday night or later in the week. Third question is I need some date ideas, I was thinking of just going to get pizza or something but I feel like we should do something else, some kind of activity maybe? Or is pizza and ice cream good?
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You can't ask a girl out today for something today. It seems like a booty call and any respectable girl won't accept -- and if she does, you tend to know right away the sort of girl she is: she's either (1) potentially clingy/desperate; (2) used to booty-call contact from others in the past/present...
Call tonight to ask about seeing her on the earliest possible date, explaining that you'd like to see her but your cousin hadn't actually consulted you for your availability.
Pizza is more a hanging out thing. Take her to a nice coffee shop for fancy pastry and a walk on the beach/in the park. Think "romance in Paris/Monte Carlo." (In other words, try to create an environment that indicates romantic interest, not greasy-spoon lady-and-the-tramp poverty-line dating, which can be misconstrued as "friend zone" activity. It doesn't have to be expensive, just romantic.)0
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