Or would that be too big of an age gap for them?
I've recently had dates and flings with girls older than me and I'm 28.
I'm tired of dating older women for now, the reason it worked out with them was because they were easier to talk to. But I want to date younger women now. Back when this site still had chat, I would talk to a a few 20-21 year old girls on here and they woud say I was too old and I don't know how serious they were.
What is your age limit on dating partners?
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When I was that age, 25 was my limit. I dated a few guys who were in their mid-twenties and I couldn't relate to them very well. The oldest I've dated is 12 years older and it wasn't very successful. I personally prefer someone within 5 years of my age. Otherwise it seemed like they only want to date me BECAUSE I'm younger and not because we get along especially well. There's a different dynamic when you date a guy who is a lot older -- usually he has a mindset of being superficially driven and also dominant. Or else they were immature for their age and didn't seem capable of growth. Not saying you are that way, just sharing my experiences. That being said, I did have a crush on a guy who was 12 years older who I had a lot in common with IN SPITE of his age, not because of it. I would have dated him, but he wasn't really into dating girls who were much younger, so nothing became of our friendship.
Some girls enjoy a different dynamic in their relationship, though. My advice is to look for the girls who are attracted and interested in you, not try to find the hottest, youngest girls possible and try to make them attracted to you and/or mentally older than they are. It seems to work better that way.1