I'm a single mum of one little boy. I'm 25 this year and feel like I'm 65. Well mostly because when you head out in a small town like where I live you get the image that you should be at home. Now for the past six years since my little boy was born I only went out with ones from work on work nights out which happen usually once or twice a year. I'm back living with my parents whom are the best in the world in regards to minding him for me. The problem now I have most of the ones I work with are either married, engaged or dating someone they really like. I find it impossible at this stage to even have a conversation with a guy, usually because someone will shout out she a single mum wanting to tie you down. No offense but a conversion with people and maybe a bit more but to settle down for life with someone, I'm totally not there yet. Did meet a guy online who lived near me but turned out he had a girlfriend in another country. Now I don't mind people having girlfriends but hey don't try to ask me out for a date and get the girlfriend the next day to say stay away. When II asked why he done it, he said your the extremely skinny and talkive type and a single mum. No one in their right minds would date someone like you. I did wonder why being skinny and talkive would have anything to do with people not wanting to even speak to me at this point in time. So guys/ girls explain what it is that skinny and talkive and single mum would have to do with not talking to someone?
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What I look for are wife traits (cook, clean, sex), and the last important thing I look for is the willingness to work a relationship out. Be open to options and be willing to discuss solutions to a problem.
If a woman has those, id be willing to date her even if she has a kid.