So I'm single and always have been, but the particular woman I'm looking for doesn't seem to exist, at least around here.
I just dream of dating a proper lady, one who I can take out for walks and not feel afraid of showing her my sensitive side. Then when I see Women dating the complete opposite of me; rude, disrespectful and quite frankly not polite that disheartens me.
Could it be due to me reading too many fantasy stories and watching too many films? Could it be me? Could it be my location? I just wish someone could help me here. :/
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no. that's just fine. its honest and real and you don't seem like a coward as indicated below. you just don't present as delusional, as do the persons below.
im sorry you haven't found anyone genuine, but I don't think what you want is at all unreasonable.
I find it very difficult to open up or admit how I feel about anything, so I prefer he guy is able to. it adds humanity to the relationship.
i fond guys who pretend to not feel anything, or worse, who think being an adult means bullsh*tting, to be very unattractive cowardly fake and boring.
you are a man. what it means to be a manis w/e you make of it.
you can't follow someone elses rule of what being a man is then turn around and say you are strong and independent. the guys answering below seem to think they can be brain washed AND strong independent thinkers. nope.
Im quite sure Nazis were forbidden to show emotion because it was not 'manly', and they did not make this decision on their own nor were they strong.. they were wiped out for a reason, because to be cold and heartless lack compassion or any genuine comprehension of your own motivation, emotionality. humanity, , 'insensitve' is against humanity, and you necessarily end up doing atrocious condemnable acts. ... because without humanity you're just a drone.1