Why would a male friend of mine be so concerned about who I dated on the weekend, if we had sex, if he was any good and if I am going to go out with him again? Every single weekend he needs to know what I am doing. I kind of thought when we first met that he was interested in me but he never really came out and said so. He has at different occasions described the woman he wants and they added very similar to me but really I never gave it any thought. I did ask him on one occasion would he ask me out and he said "definitely."
I still don't see why he would want to know details of who I am dating etc., I don't with him,
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Some people are a little voyeuristic..they have fantasies, maybe.
I wold guess he is one of those. He enjoys his fantasies about you, and enjoys hearing about your sexual escapades.
Yes, he is interested in you, but he is just as interested in his fantasies about you.
It's possible he figures that it's safer to have fantasies in a work situation, where there are so many complications in dating a co-worker. Sure he'd like to date you, but then he thinks of the gossip, the problem if you break up, what if you start something with another co worker that he has to see every day, etc.
So he gives a sigh, and just asks you how it went this weekend!0